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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Choosing to become engaged and married is an adult decision.  While it is their decision, it is my decision (as a parent) to not support a married couple. To me, that means health insurance, help with living expenses and footing the entire wedding bill.

My suggestion is to layout your expeditions. A 20 year old has no idea how much $$ they will need to live, from health insurance to car insurance, etc. Lots of financial stress.[/quote]

There it is. The same parent who holds ollege tuition over her kids' heads to control them. Continuing to try to use money as a control even when it hasn't been asked for and long after it is appropriate.

control freaks need to find a better way to deal with their children. And if you wonder how bad mothers and law are created, you have it right here[/quote]

Ok so are you saying parents SHOULD pay to support a married couple? To what extent?  For how long?[/quote]

I am pp of this post. College tuition was not part of this discussion. I am assuming this couple will wait for graduation to marry. Many kids live at home after graduation while they pull $$ together for renting an apartment, buying a car etc. Maybe YOU are willing to house a married couple. I am not.[/quote]

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