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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow op I am so sorry. Your boyfriend obviously doesn't love you. Move on. I do not have a bachelors degree and I am married to a doctor now. My husband is from a culture where women do not typically work. He had zero judgment. I dated other men before my husband and it wasn't a problem. I worked as a preschool teacher for many years and they were fine with my career choice. Now that my husband is finished with residency I can finish my BA. The right guy will support you and help you with your goals. [/quote]

Did you read that the OP has no goals? [/quote]

She does have goals. She wants to be a wife and mother. She wants a man interested in being the breadwinner while she is a traditional wife and stays home and cares for [b]the kids[/b].  It’s a DCUM sin to want these things  without obtaining a PhD first, but it’s a goal and it doesn’t make op the horrible names many of you have chosen to call her. As pp pointed out there are many high salaried men that want this and many of them grew up  with highly educated and high powered moms and dads. The things your adult children desire and value in their personal relationships may be vastly different from what you would choose.[/quote]

Yes, there are some "high salaried men" who want a wife who stays home and raises the kids, but "the kids" are usually "their kids", not "her kid(s)".

As a PP said, I think the 'traditional housewife' boat sailed away from OP when she had a kid as a poor, uneducated, single mom. She may still find a positive father figure for her child, and a husband to love and be loved by, but I think she's a bit delusional to think she's going to have high quality men lining up to support her and her child. I guess deep down she knows that, and that's why she's so upset that this guy broke things off.[/quote]

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