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[quote=Anonymous]I think it is OK not to have your MIL share their limited time with your mother every time but especially at holidays this is just rude to your mom. If your ILs only visited once a year or if your mother was overbearing you could see the ILs side but you do not - should not - support the rudeness your ILs want you complicit in. I am a new MIL and my DD's IL are the local family for our granddaughter. I try and be very very circumspect that they are imbedded in the day to day of the family and I am the visitor. I would never ever ask my DD to keep ILs away and I always make a point of thanking them for helping out so much and say how lucky granddaughter has a loving family surrounding her. I am not close to them but I see keeping the family circle around this young family strong. (I am close to my DD and have the best SIL!) [/quote]
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