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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if it's just sex?  Who cares?  People get all worked up over cheating for nothing.[/quote]

The cheated-on spouse cares. Otherwise it would have been an open marriage.
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If the cheated-on spouse has been rejecting sex, clearly they do not care. 
I would say an affair is equally selfish as a sexless marriage. Neither is worse, they are exactly the same degree of selfishness.[/quote]

Why can’t the potential cheater say “hey I don’t want to live aa sexless marriage anymore. We need to get a divorce if we can’t have sex.”[/quote]

Why go through that hassle? Unilateral decisions have already been made about intimacy, no need for that to change or needless threats to be made.[/quote]

Unbelievable. A spouse might not have as much sex as before for whatever reason and he or she as tbe non-cheating spouse have tbe same blame as tbe cheating spouse.  My wife of over 18 years can just tell me - hey, I need more sex. If there is an issue, we can axdress it and not go get an AP.[/quote]

Did you miss the opening sentence where “the cheated-on spouse has been rejecting sex”? That is your wife telling you she needs more sex, and you telling her “No”. 
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