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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think cheaters want a divorce.  I think most want to keep their families. Other cultures see affairs differently. The French, Chinese and Finnish for example.  It is not child abuse and it is selfish but often it is the result of the overall dynamic of the partnership. It is also selfish for a woman to have a child when her husband doesn’t want one. A decision that is very impactful. The scenario I see is that people have kids and their relationship and priorities shift, a spouse feels neglected and seeks another relationship.[/quote]

It's also selfish when a man pressures his wife into a pregnancy she doesn't want--just the same as a wife having a kid when the husband does not want one. Either way, it is manipulative. People always assume only women do this. That is not the case. [/quote]

I hear you hit women have the choice of the morning after pill or abortion. Men don’t.[/quote]

When you are married, you can't exactly just take a pill or get an abortion (years ago the morning after pill was prescription only and hard to get)...it is not like you are dating. [/quote]

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