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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]For instance, women are usually emotionally driven creatures (obviously, not all), and are such natural & dedicated caretakers.

Men are very different, we're highly logical creatures (aka hard headed and black & white). [/quote]

Such is the mythos, but I have found reality to be the opposite. Men, emotionally driven, women, hard-headed and cold.

[quote]Where a woman may not hesitate to care for a man she barely knows, [/quote]

And then you have many millions of examples of women who [i]stop caring[/i] for men they've known for many years, and dump them without a second thought.

[quote]Sadly, if a woman is already disabled when a man meets her, he is naturally going to begin to contemplate what his role may become in the future... especially if her disability is degenerative. The thought of this relationship becoming a burden will scare most men away almost instantly, and for those who may choose to pursue a relationship anyway? Well... unfortunately, his friends & family will most likely talk him out of pursuing the relationship. [/quote]

The chances are 99% that a woman would do the exact same thing. Women expect men to provide resources; if he is disabled, and thus an inferior provider and a net consumer of resources, she won't be interested. And her friends & family will support her. I bet we can even find some DCUM threads where the female OP asks if she should date a disabled guy and the answer is a resounding "heck, no!"[/quote]

Sorry, I'm a male and I disagree. In general women are naturally more nurturing and I don't know if it's in their DNA or through watching their mothers. I was born with a disability and I had a tough time dating but if I had been born a female I think it would have been awful. Yes, I might have gotten lucky but if a woman had what I was born with it would have been very difficult for me to look past it.

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