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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She may be looking but I suspect she is afraid of intimacy and so is pursuing the wrong guys - because beneath it all, she really doesn't want someone to get too close.  I say this from my own experience of having pursued unavailable men because the available men were too scary.

You can't overcome this problem by telling yourself to go after men who fit a checklist of good qualities when your heart is not in it.  You have to do therapy and understand why you are scared and learn to confront your fears with help from a professional.  It was pretty scary for me to ask out the guy who I eventually married but it was possible after doing serious therapy around this.[/quote]

this sounds like my sister as well.  she's similar to OP's description of her friend: very pretty, smart, educated, makes over $150k/year.  she always goes for the guy that's unavailable.  and keeps seeing them after they've ended things.  nothing wrong with her.  and nothing wrong with being single, but she does want to meet someone.  [/quote]

Your sister sounds like me. Are we related PP? :)[/quote]

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