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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Huh, funny that this resurfaced. I’m the OP. I now have a finalized agreement. I didn’t realize that no matter what I get to keep my portion of his retirement. It’s only the survivor benefit and the healthcare annuity that get forfeited if you remarry. So that was a nice surprise. Nice to know I get a chunk of money every month now regardless of what I do. I did elect for the survivor benefits and I will pay for them. That said, I’m young, so who knows what will happen?[/quote] It's grotesque and unjust that you get any of that money.[/quote] Why? That's her portion of their joint assets like everything else. Of course she should take that monthly amount. Time goes quickly and OP will be glad she'll have that. We know too many people that didn't plan right for retirement, and are short. [/quote] It's bullshit. She's not even 40. She neither needs, nor deserves, a piece of his retirement.[/quote]
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