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Reply to "Please help- my DH lost his job again and I’m thinking of leaving him"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you need to think clearly about your role here. YOU clearly have known for a long time that your DH is not a stable breadwinner; yet you CHOSE to stay home and to have not one, but TWO children with him in close succession. You absolutely bear responsibility here, if not blame. What would be best for your kids is for you to find a job, and for your DH to get treatment for his ADHD and drinking. You say you love him, so unless the day-to-day environment is chaotic or violent, it would be better for the kids if you stay together. Better financially too, even if he's going to be jobless for awhile. Basically you need to get your head out of the sand and accept that YOU have the key role in maintaining financial stability in your family. [/quote] This. Also, get your parents out of your marriage. They should not support you getting divorced. [/quote]
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