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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. Go see a lawyer
2. Getvan individual therapist to manage the emotions you will have through the process.
3. Wait till after the holidays and have her removed from the home, if she won't leave. You can do this in md if there is an affair.
4. Have a family therapist to help you with the kids.
5. Explain to your wife she has 1year to get her shot together if she want to remain married. She will run to her AP .. he will promptly dump her. She will need lots of therapy. Be removed but supportive. In a year you will either get s heathier wife or x wife. But your children need a mother not a train wreck and it's time to put your foot down.

Read chump lady so you dontbfalll into the BS, I did something wrong to cause this routine.

No marriage therapy until she has broken it off with AP for 6 months and been to individual therapy.[/quote]

Removed from the home, get real. [/quote]

Yes. In MD the cheater has to move out. Happened to 2 of my friends. They cheated and their H's lawyers up and had her served paper which ordered her to leave the home.[/quote]

LOL, no it doesn't.  there is no law in MD that states the cheater HAS to move out.  DCUM legals to the rescue!!;lol[/quote]

Yes. In MD you must live separately for 1 year to file for divorce but the law says if there is cheating you don't have to wait the year and the cheater must move out.

Lol  :roll: [/quote]

You are correct in that if there is adultery, then the 1 year minimum separation is not required.  That said, it doesn't say in the law WHO should move out, rather, both parties need to be separated.[/quote]

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