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[quote=Anonymous]OP--How are you defining amicable? My actual divorce process was fine. We were both very fair and mature as we divided up custody and our finances. We have never fought since he moved out. We cohost the kid's birthday parties and are cordial to each other at events. I work really hard to never say negative things about him to the kids. I will always work really hard to make sure my kids aren't torn between us (including tempering expectations for visits/holidays when they are adults.) Compared to what many of my friends endure with their exes, our divorce is very easy. But it wasn't amicable in that it wasn't what I wanted. He completely betrayed my trust and our marriage. He pisses me off on a semi-regular basis with his ongoing selfishness and thoughtlessness. Even though we're both mature about it, it was still traumatic and painful for me and it was really hard on our kids. [/quote]
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