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[quote=Anonymous]I was referring to (when googling this question-) a situation whereby we belong to a college org. that hosts students , (just for dinners, activities, day-trips, etc ) that we assume are interested in our invitations after having signed up. The students also mentioned repeatedly-wanting to come to our home, & also join me over some music lessons, etc.. I have to coordinate a good time for them to come to our home-(like over their Birthday wkend may be best-can't do the entertaining All the time. ) So far-they are either negligent about a reply, or it's After the Fact. Really gauls me-they Know-there are hundreds of remaining students who still have NO Host family- while they too often stick with their own Cliche anyway most times. Taking us for Granted is what I call it ! THEIR LOSS. This is becoming quite common every semester with new students. Our former students miss us Very Much ! I don't let it bother me though-I have No problem over alternate plans to do what I may also want to do and enjoy -no matter if it's 1, 2, or 3 or more -it often works out Better ! In my case, though-the students had even Requested an invitation to come to my house, or do some activities, then, ignore the invite when I come up with a plan and contact them,. The planning & organizing it can be very time-consuming -so party's still ON-they just may miss OUT! (& knock OFF all the over-accommodating-about Times, Dates, etc., you've got the Home, the Time, & the Means, thats Enough! ) (People hold zero Respect for a Host that is eternally "accommodating" -otherwise viewed as Nagging, and being totally insecure, & really-Uninteresting.  [/quote]

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