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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The happy ending is certainly a sign of a problem in the relationship, and a serious one at that, but I for one don’t think it’s worse than an emotional affair or that it is necessarily cheating (depends on how you define cheating). The reactions here are characteristically over the top. One man’s view. [/quote]

Spoken like a cheater. It's never their fault when they cheat, and there's nothing wrong with it, either.[/quote]

I am a woman and I agree with the man. In my experience, men that do this might have a Complex (not sure I can write the name here) where they the wife only as the mother of the child (Madonna) and would not do what they want sexually with her and prefer to turn to prostitution (happy handing in my opinion is a soft form of prostitution). I think your DH definitely has issues. None of this is your fault, but maybe there is a way to “fix” him without breaking the marriage. The DCUM posters are being too harsh. Most men I know have been to strip clubs at some point and that is definitely a [/quote]

You don’t actually seem to agree with the man. He thinks the relationship is at fault. You think the man has issues. Not really the same thing.[/quote]

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