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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Doesn't matter.  I bought his secretary presents for her baby twin girls, helped him pick out gift cards for secretary appreciation day, even had lunch with her while he was traveling.

[b]People who cheat are terribly damaged and capable of the kind of manipulation and duplicity you will never fully appreciate.  They don't care one bit about you, his kids, their own reputations, their own kids, their own spouses, their own reputations.  They ONLy care that for some reason, your spouse makes them feel alive inside, and they will do anything to maintain that feeling.[/b] [/quote]

This is so extreme.  Just read what you wrote.  You really believe someone who has an affair really doesn’t care about their children?  Life is complicated and sometimes people are unhappy and they stray.  Or they are flawed and cheat when their marriage is great.  Or they are foolish.  Etc.  You need to gain some perspective. [/quote]

I agree with PP.  There's a hole in the soul of cheaters that no spouse can ever fill.  Cheating on your spouse is sticking it to your children.  It just is.  Dress it up however you want.

As Dr. Phil said, "many people tell me they would die for their children.  But will you LIVE for them?"  Will you make the hard choices and sacrifices that are in THEIR best interest?  For a cheater, the answer is NO.[/quote]

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