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Reply to "stopping a potential affair by getting to know the other woman-- does it work? "
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[quote=Anonymous] About 4 yrs ago, an attractive female coworker and I got too close. It never became physical - we decided the risk of blowing up our lives wasn't worth it. The mutual attraction is still there, but we know spending time together isn't healthy, so we don't. DW is pretty intuitive, so I gradually avoided mentioning CW's name at home, fearing she would detect the attraction somehow in my voice or how I described our interactions. Recently we were getting rid of some old furniture on Craig's List and I got a response from someone with the same unusual first name as CW. The thought of CW and her husband showing up at our house, and going through the introductions to our spouses in our living room freaked me out. I don't think it would have been a good experience for the spouses either. DW could tell CW was someone who had become special to me - it sounds like OP has some clues too. Luckily, it was a coincidence, but I doubt OP's proposal of gettng to know the OW as a preventative measure is going to have the outcome she wants. [/quote]
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