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[quote=Anonymous]The problem is that these precursors to affairs are seen as completely harmless by the spouse involved. You are seen as over-thinking, making something out of nothing, and made to feel bad because you are “ruining” an innocent friendship. The involved spouse cannot see that this could ever possibly turn into more, it’s preposterous! But it does, it creates connection, enjoyment, and it’s new and fun. Emotional attachments are made and one thing leads to another. Either emotional affair or also physical. The cheater swears it was absolutely nothing they saw coming and it “just happened.” They and the other spouse need to ground and refocus on themselves; but the involved spouse needs to recognize that this is a poor path and make the decision to slow cut off the texting, etc.[/quote]
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