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[quote=Anonymous]OP: I'm sorry the assholes found your thread. It is not in any way awful that you're more closely bonded to a child you cared for full time for the first two years of his life than a blobby infant whom you seldom see. It's different! The relationship might change over time and it might not. I'm a nanny who's been doing this a long time and I know first hand there are some kids you fall instantly in love with and some who you grow to love over time. Sometimes you don't even realize it has happened until you're crossing the street and a car nearly hits you in the crosswalk and you throw your body in front of the stroller for instance. It will come, don't fret. It might never be the same intensity as your grandson since you didn't care for her for two years like you did him, but if you nourish it and spend time 1:1 with her, I guarantee it will come. Don't listen to the people who tell you otherwise; they have no idea what they're talking about.[/quote]
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