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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I disagree with the other posters about nagging. I nagged my husband into picking up after himself and sharing significantly more in household chores. Although maybe nagging is not the word. I would just point out, repeatedly, that I was on my feet working while he was on his ass. I would say "How is it reasonable and fair that I am constantly up doing things and you are constantly on your ass?" He eventually did make significant changes due to this. I think he felt shame (thank god). Another thing that helped is we designated a spot in the house where he can throw his clothes around out of site (his own closet), and we designated a spot for his other things after work (backback, shoes, wallet, etc). If he leaves clothes out in a common area (he used to do this constantly) I shriek, but I never say anything about his stuff being a mess in his designated spots. [/quote] *sight [/quote]
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