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[quote=Anonymous]First off, reconsider your standards. Either everything has to be up to your standard, and then you take care of it, or you compromise on how clean is clean enough. I compromised, because I didn't want to nag or fight about it. The things that really bother me, I take care of myself (mostly clutter). The things that bother me less, I let go of (and sometimes they will bother DH more and he will take care of them).

However, consider that your anger may simply be you not being used to sharing space with another person, and it's more of a control issue than cleanliness issue. Why is it bothering you that his clothes are still in a box? Those are not your clothes. Consider the deeper source of your anger.

As far as clutter, designate a space in your bedroom for the clutter and throw all of his discarded clothes into that space, at least it won't be on the bed/floor.

As far as cleaning/chores, sounds like he works a lot, so you can afford to hire a cleaner to do things like wash toilets. Or if it's easy enough for you to do, I think it's ok to be in charge of that, as long as he does something else.

If he is completely useless in all respects but earning money, however, then maybe he is not ideal husband material. [/quote]

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