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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your problem:

1. 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men.
2. You think you are in the 80% of the men who are not being chased ("average straight guy... average looks... average guy who isn’t a player...")

Solution:

Stop being average.

1. Go get jacked. Most of the guys I see are skinnyfat. 
2. Dress well. Most guys I see are slobs. 
3. Improve your social skills. Most guys are inept, especially at speaking to women.
4. Do interesting things. Most guys are boring.

If you have muscles, are well dressed, are chatty and confident, and have an interesting life, you will be in the top 5% of men.

Now enough of your defeatism. Go forth and improve yourself![/quote]

I think this is very good advice if your goal is to improve the quality/quantity of dates.  In general: 
1. Muscles are relatively easy to put on, if a guy puts in the work. 
2. Dressing well is the easiest way for a woman to pretend you are more successful or more attractive than you are, which will pay off a lot of dividends in the dating market.
3. Speaking to women is probably the wrong focus.  Asking them questions about themselves is better.  
4. Meh. Do things you like.

I say this as someone who focused on a lot of these things after my divorce.  I don't think my new girlfriend cares about any of them, but it certainly helped the dating process before I met her.
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