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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It shouldn't. Most men aren't near the parents moms are. It is just a dodge to not pay child support.

OP, just start at 50/50 and take all the extra time he gives up. Don't trade. He will start dropping time when he realizes how much work it is to actually parent. Or he will start dating again and lose interest in spending so much time with the kids.[/quote]

Dad's don't parent exactly like moms but they are loved by their children and parent in their own way. It's a shame so many women minimize the love kids have for their dad in marriage and in divorce. You had kids with the dude. He's their parent and guess what, even if you hate [b]what he feeds your kids or how he dresses them,[/b] your kids love him and need/want him in their life as much as they need you. [/quote]

Please.  Moms aren’t concerned about what dad feeeds and dresses them in.  You’re clueless.  Moms are concerned IF their kids are fed and that they are picked up from school, childcare is arranged, mandatory doctors appointments scheduled etc.  But see feeding your kids requires planning.  Food doesn’t just appear in your fridge, especially after working all day.  And you have to schedule with babysitters, nannies etc to arrange childcare.  Most women wish their biggest concern was their husband feeding or dressing their child in something silly. No, we are concerned with their safety and well-being. Kind of like how we arenconcerned with the other actions common of men like sexual assault, sexual abuse and assault.  Men have problems.  [/quote]

What a load of baloney. I don't believe for a moment that anyone on DCUM has an XDH who does not feed his kids, arrange childcare, or schedule doctor's appointments. Maybe these men don't do it the way their harpy ex-wives prefer them to do it, or maybe they don't do it because their harpy ex-wives demanded full custody and therefore do all that stuff themselves, but that's an entirely different matter.

[b]Sexual assault and abuse is not a "common" action of men[/b]. You are twisted in the head. YOU have problems, not "men". Seek help![/quote]

1/4 women are assaulted.  Yes, it IS common. [/quote]

Bullshit. They have expanded the definition in order to make it "common".[/quote]

Hi white male!  [/quote]

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