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[quote=Anonymous]As someone who was the target of horrible bullying I find it terrible advice of posters to advise that OP’s daughter will learn from this experience, will be stronger, should have a stiff upper lip.

This kind of social alienation, isolation and shaming is horrible.  Telling someone to get over it, in the future you will laugh about it, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, is the opposite of helpful.  Because the victim is then double shamed, because you’re still upset and not feeling any better the next day or next week and think “what’s wrong with me, why am I still upset, I should have been over this by now, a normal person would I have moved on but I can’t....”

Nip this in the bud OP.  This won’t be the last time these girls pull this crap on your DD, if they think they can get away with it they will keep doing it.  And your DD will feel worse,,every single day she has to go to school and see them.  Every day.  Call the coach, pick up the phone and call.  Tonight.  I send a virtual hug to your DD,,because bullying is just awful.[/quote]

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