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[quote=Anonymous]If you say yes, and she is just being dramatic, then once the novelty wears off she will go back to staying with her mom. If you say yes, and she stays with you through graduation, then most likely you saved her from something really unpleasant or worse. If you say no, and she is just being dramatic, she will never forget being rejected by her dad when she really needed him. It will change her forever. She will also hate you forever, and blame you for saying no. Her relationship with her dad will never be the same. If you say no because you think she is being dramatic, and there is actually something happening with stepdad or something happens down the road, you will destroy her. She, and possibly your husband, will resent you for this for as long as you are in their lives. Say yes. If you are correct, this will be temporary. If you are not correct, you will be saving this girl from a lot of trauma.[/quote]
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