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[quote=Anonymous]OP, would you be having kids with this man? If not, then you could certainly keep moving forward with the relationship and see how you feel. If you start to feel the strain of his debt, and you start to resent her, you can try to work through it or back off. But, if you're older and want children, you could be entangled in a situation you hate well before you've had that time to think about it. His money will never be all his, even ten years from now. He has children, and he will have grandchildren. And while he could have the same with you, he will also be buying birthday/Christmas gifts and helping with grad school or downpayments or traveling to see grandkids with a family you don't know very well. If he's not willing to talk about money, you can't do this.[/quote]
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