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[quote=Anonymous]I would tell the friend that it's totally appropriate to feel angry, but to put his(?) energy into himself and his child. Get the papers served, work out a temporary plan for custody, talk to the child, but don't waste your energy on the spouses of the AP or on trying to burn down the cheating spouses life. I know from personal experience that people don't view having an affair or multiple affairs as worthy of shunning, and the more your friend tries to tear down his STBX, the more people will judge him for being dramatic and bitter. He needs to focus on what comes next in his own life and for his child.[/quote]
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