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[quote=Anonymous]I would make copies of all the financial documents including bank statements. I would then make a plan regarding the child and agree with a prior poster that seeing a therapist together on how to tell the child and how to do-parent post separation is a good idea. I’d also decide do I want to move out or do I want the STBX to move. Do we both need to move as financially the house cannot he kept. I’d also decide what custody schedule I wanted as STBX won’t be prepared and the status quo can be pushed for later. I personally would not tell the spouses. No matter how pissed I am, I wouldn’t want it getting back to my child. Also, if a coworker or work related, I would not want STBX’s job risked as it may mean I pay more spousal or child support, and if also hurts my kid.[/quote]
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