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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are they still living together as married people?

What is the husband hoping to gain?

Is the husband afraid for his or the child’s safety?

I don’t think a real lawyer was consulted here.

Separation agreements are negotiable, and this ambush is not going to make the negotiation go well. Likely, the wife will cancel the business trip and stay in the house, dragging out the drama for the child to witness.

All this is doing is setting up a very dramatic, likely expensive divorce, which isn’t in the child’s best interest. It also doesn’t make you look like the best parent. Yes, she is banging dudes on worktrips, but you are crazymaking in front of the child. Which action is going to be more traumatic to a kid? Not one that your child is ignorant of.

If you are truly wanting to end your marriage, and there is no physical threat, tell your spouse, and then decide who is leaving immediately for the night/weekend/whatever, and what the schedule will be with the child. No, this is not “abandonment” as the DCUM armchair lawyers will tell you.

On the other hand, if you just want the hysterical trauma bonding, go ahead and do this, but please send the child someplace first (grandparents, etc).

[b]You can’t go batshit insane scorched earth once you have a kid[/b].[/quote]

You absolutely can. Sounds like spouse is on here trying to manipulate cheater on spouse to sticking around because ‘ think of the child!

Lawyer up!![/quote]

Yup. I would scorch all the earth. All. Send letters to the spouses too. Especially if I were financially stable without STB ex. If you do dirt,you get dirt.[/quote]

Have at it. But be prepared to look just as shitty as the cheating wife.[/quote]

Yep.   It is the quintessential Anti-MYOB.   Not only will you be affecting other peoples relationships unnecessarily, but you will also draw the ire of many people against you.   Why would you want that in your life ?[/quote]

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