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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this is so clearly Attention Deficit Disorder you should start reading up on that, otherwise the anger, lying and depression stage will set in for both you in a couple years.  Read ADHD Marriage book, then have him read it after a big argument. [/quote]

Is it possible to have ADHD and be able to perform very successfully at work?  He's very organized on the work front (partially out of anxiety of failure) and very disorganized / careless on all other responsibilities [/quote]

This is my DH. He probably has ADHD, was coddled by MIL and it has been a source of contention in our marriage since having kids. Lots of conversations and arguments, but we're getting to a more equitable distribution of responsibility. My take is that if he's able to function like a responsible adult at work and manage a successful career, or if he can remember to manage his countless fantasy football teams, or other things that are important to him, he needs to make being a reliable partner equally, if not more important to him. And this is not only important for our marriage, but important for how we model marriage for our children. We have a boy and a girl. I want them to see that mommy isn't the one who does everything while daddy is the 'fun' parent.

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