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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I the only married woman cheating on my DH even while sleeping with him? [/quote]

Nope.  I have regular sex with my hubby.  It’s bland, boring and really quick.  I have as much sex as I can with my lover because it’s the complete opposite.  I’ve always been a cheater.  I didn’t cheat while I was engaged because I wanted to prove to myself that the marriage was the right thing.  I did cheat within a month of being married to prove I still had it plus I couldn’t resist my ex who was pissed I got married.  I life complicated?  Hell yes.[/quote]

What makes the lover so much better?  Is there something the dh can change?[/quote]

Unfortunately it can’t change - [b]he is just small and not satisfying[/b].  I will use my toy with hubby so I can orgasm but he just can’t hit my hot spots when we are together.[/quote]

Presumably you knew this when you married him...[/quote]

Asking real questions here.  I don't get this.  Marry a small guy and then later complain he's small and cheat on him?  SMH

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I never thought I would cheat, but in the past 7 years, my DH has had sex with me one time.  I've asked for us to go to therapy, I've asked if there is something I could change.  He always says, next week, or this coming weekend, or has some excuse.  It never happens.  I finally started having an affair with a man about 6 months ago.  It's very infrequent that we get together, but it is something.  I don't want to cheat, and I'd much rather be with my husband.  I don't want to divorce because of my kids, and to be honest, I'm afraid of being alone. [/quote]

This completely sounds like me. After a few years of no sex I gave in with a business friend. A few times a year we attend the same conferences and always end up in one of our rooms. I'd love to rekindle our marriage and I keep trying but it's not happening. I have no idea if my husband is cheating and I have no interest in asking him. [b]Other than the no sex things aren't bad at all.[/b] [/quote]

Just out of curiosity, if you guys never have sex, how are you guys "not bad at all"?  If I go a month without making love to my DW, I'm feeling pretty darn frustrated and not being able to connect with her intimately.[/quote]

Because I get my sex elsewhere but certainly not with the desired frequency. DH and I now do have sex a few times a year which is better then it use to be but far from being enough. He's a good provider and a very good father which are both important at this point in my life. [/quote]

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