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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]With respect to women's attraction to men, the Redpillers call this "Alpha f*cks, beta bucks." Women have lustful attraction to guys who aren't marrying material and a certain long-term fondness for reliable guys who they don't really want to have sex with.[/quote]

And hate groups provide such helpful relationship advice. [/quote]

But they get their hooks into guys because there is a mostly unacknowledged truth buried in there. The Redpillers characterize it in the nastiest possible ways with respect to women, but naive guys start trusting them because it feels like they're telling a truth that everyone else ignores or denies. Traits that are appealing in a long-term partner aren't the same traits that are appealing in a sex partner. So, if they're hearing "be kind, supportive, and reliable" but see women hooking up at bars & parties with guys who have big muscles, they're going to believe the dudes telling them that chicks dig assholes. [/quote]

There are jerk “redpillers,” as there are jerks in any group.  It’s easy to find people like that in any group and use them to dismiss any claims made by that group.  The “redpillers” account of male-female dynamics seems, to me, far more predictive of what actually happens than the “standard model” of those dynamics.  [/quote]

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