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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it's not a gender thing. It's probably true of the vast majority of people. But do yourself a favor and don't discuss your lack of attraction or the "99 other women" with your wife. [/quote]

Seriously, without question almost everyone feels stronger attraction to novelty rather than familiarity.  Especially men.  The biggest difference is, on average, men have a naturally strong drive, so they want to have sex with most women, including their wife.  Women who have responsive sex drives, they won't respond to the same old, but only to something new.

Monogamy is hard for everyone, it's just a safer route than open relationships.[/quote]

I actually think women feel a stronger attraction to novelty than men. Or get bored by monogamy faster. At least so says Daniel Berger, author of What Do Women Want?

But I agree, it is difficult for everybody.[/quote]

My totally unscientific belief is that women sexually prefer shorter term committed relationships and men prefer a free for all.

I couldn't prove it but would volunteer for the research.[/quote]

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