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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, she is right in both cases. Apartment Building companies are well known for charging people for minor things. Hungry toddler should not have to wait for food because you are at a fancy restaurant and it takes them 20+ minuets to come around. [/quote]

+1[/quote]

But you don't need to lash out about it. You can be polite, you know.[/quote]

[b]Wow[/b], you really aren't on your wife's side about[b] anything[/b], are you?

Get to counseling fast, you need to get to the root of your anger issues OP.  Before your further frustrate your wife and before you get any more delusional about your behavior. [/quote]

This sort of illustrates the point. PP2 disagrees with PP1 which is fine. But instead of saying, "I disagree, here's why," she (or possibly he) leaps immediately to the "wow" and extrapolates from what we know and leaps to the conclusion that OP is [u]never[/u] on his wife's side. She then concludes that he has "anger issues" and is "delusional." Some people aren't comfortable with varying degrees of disagreement and a level of confrontation proportional to the dispute. Everything has to be more clear cut in a good versus evil kind of way, justifying rapid escalation in any dispute. [/quote]

How is getting up to leave a restaurant impolite or confrontational?  I'm not any of the PP's in this thread but OP has explained both scenarios and in neither instance was his wife impolite or lashing out.  So the fact that he even started this thread, picking those two examples to show how horrible his wife's behavior is, shows that he's judging her harshly and not according to reality.  It's worth a reality check to say "why aren't you on her side when she was in the right?" to an OP who is basically calling his wife crazy to the world at large, and she's done nothing wrong by his own descriptions.

I agree it doesn't seem like OP has anger issues, but delusional seems to be right on the mark.[/quote]

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