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[quote=Anonymous]Op you’re not listening to your loved ones. If there is a problem, they are not inventing it out of thin air. All you can do is hear their feelings (or not hear their feelings), then decide whether or not their feelings matter. It’s a 4-quadrant grid: 1) If their experiences and issues are justified, and you listen and help resolve, you’ll have success. 2) If their experiences are justified, and you don’t listen or help repair, you’ll find a continued rift. 3) If their experiences are NOT justified, and you find that you don’t want to play into their issues, then it’s up to you to create boundaries. 4) If their experiences are NOT justified, you can choose to give into it, and you can decide how healthy that is or isn’t. The idea is you cannot be a fair judge of whether or not their experiences are justified. So your choices are only to give in, listen, help build trust; or not. [/quote]
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