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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could people that laugh at me please stop ? What's wrong with you? You take pleasure knowing people feel bad? If you don't have empathy please ignore me.[/quote]

We're not laughing at you. We're telling you that your self image is corrosive, not your boyfriends fault, and your responsibility to address. He loves you and finds you attractive and communicates his needs and desires and feelings with you. He's hitting it out of the park. You are convinced he is lying and calling you fat when he tells you he thinks you look sexy in a dress and stockings.

Seriously, you need to get help, it's not funny its sad. If you grow up to have daughters you will pass on this disordered body image. Even if you ARE fat you need to find out how to love yourself, but from your posts I'm not even convinced you are actually fat. Seriously, don't keep dating this guy or start dating any guy or god forbid have a kid until you figure out how to have a little respect for yourself. You are very lucky you didn't fall in with an abusive guy...they look for people like you, so down on themselves they can't see their own worth.

You matter, you are a person who is worthy of love and affection and sexual attraction. You NEED to find a way to believe that or you will never have a healthy relationship with anyone, let alone this guy. [/quote]

Such wise words and such a generous person to share them. [/quote]

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