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Reply to "Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Husband thinking of me when he's pleasuring himself would be a turn on. I'm sure he does sometimes, I think of him sometimes too. But mostly he probably thinks of other hot women and I think of hot guys. Why is this bothering you OP? I've masturbated when DH is home, mostly because I just wanted to get off and take a nap. [/quote] Ha! My soul sister. [/quote] Agreed. His body and mind are his. We belong to each other in some sense, but not moreso than we belong to oursellves. I find the uptightness some people have about a partner masturbating to be really erasing of the self. Sometimes it's just easier and a comfort/pleasure, and sometimes you may want to try something out. I mean, if a woman can't orgasm, how is she supposed to experiement and figure out what works in a low-stress context if her partner always has to be there? I just don't get it. Monogamy is one thing, but this seems like unhealthy control.[/quote]
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