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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's even more blatant with the 50's women. When I was newly single at 56 after 25 years of marriage I was stunned by the first or second date attitude. I really thought I would be the one working real hard to finally get some affection but I was so wrong. After a few months I was so happy to meet a woman who I had to really woo! [/quote]

Women in their 50s are not looking for the father of their children or marriage.  BTDT.  So why waste time?  They probably wanted to see if you needed help, Viagra, and how well you performed before getting serious.[/quote]

Thankfully I didn't need help but after a couple of experiences I knew I needed to keep protection very close at hand even on a first date. [/quote]

So, they are forcing you into sex, or you are just saying yes because why not? Fast women don't seem like your preference, OP.

If it were me, it would be a turn off, because it would say to me that the woman is not picky/particular/would sleep would with anything with a penis/easy/cheap.  Those are just the first things that come to mind.  [b]I'm not a prude, [/b]but I don't believe in throwing yourself at someone, either.  And yes, after 25 years of marriage, I would think STDs.  Isn't that why there is often talk of rampant STDs at 55 and over places - people sowing their wild oats.  Sounds gross and unappealing to me, IMHO.[/quote]
I hate to break it to you, but you are pretty damn prudish.[/quote]

Nope.  Just don't subscribe to sleeping together on first date, like you do.  Which I find gross.  Most of the men I know agree.

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I bet most of the men you know act like they agree with everything you think.[/quote]

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