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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife here. It matters. When I got married women used to be all over my husband - he was so fit and attractive, and I loved how he only had eyes for me. After marriage he quickly decided getting fat was ok, and now he gets no female attention. I used to feel proud and now I feel embarrassed. We still have sex but my genuine desire is way down. Not my fault. Biology. [/quote]

If it makes you feel any better, like most women, you'd still eventually lose interest in him even if he was fit, attractive and great in bed.  Also basic biology. [/quote]

I don't know. I feel like I am always reading people on this board saying in the comments how wonderful their husbands are and how attracted they are to them. [/quote]

My wife tells everyone how wonderful I am.  Still isn't jumping my bones.  It's once a week duty sex. Period. End of story.  [/quote]

So normal. All the women I know who AREN'T having sex with their husbands (on their terms, not his) gush about how awesome their husbands are. Barfity barf barf.
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Barf +1[/quote]

Yep women just are not sexual [b]with their husbands[/b]. [/quote]

FIFY[/quote]

Women just aren't that sexual with anyone in a long term relationship.  Half of lesbians in long term relationships have sex less than once a month.

https://books.google.com/books?id=ZdYh_iFZvbkC&pg=PA429#v=onepage&q&f=false

So unless your argument is that women suck in bed and who would want to sleep with them, you can quit the battle of the sexes and just realize that for many females, sexual desire just falls off a cliff for their long term partner.  It just is how many women are wired, it's neither good or evil, just is.

I say this as one of those evil men who had a couple of affairs in my younger days with married women.  They had a sexual awakening when with me, but I had neither magical powers or a magical penis, I was just new and shiny.  So I don't take it personally when my wife's desire dropped after a while, it's not personal, it's biology.

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