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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife here. It matters. When I got married women used to be all over my husband - he was so fit and attractive, and I loved how he only had eyes for me. After marriage he quickly decided getting fat was ok, and now he gets no female attention. I used to feel proud and now I feel embarrassed. We still have sex but my genuine desire is way down. Not my fault. Biology. [/quote]

If it makes you feel any better, like most women, you'd still eventually lose interest in him even if he was fit, attractive and great in bed.  Also basic biology. [/quote]

I don't know. I feel like I am always reading people on this board saying in the comments how wonderful their husbands are and how attracted they are to them. [/quote]

My wife tells everyone how wonderful I am.  Still isn't jumping my bones.  It's once a week duty sex. Period. End of story.  [/quote]

Another DH here, my wife always says how lucky she is to be with me, and how attractive I am, and yes I believe her.  And no, we rarely have hot sex.  It's once a week, she likes it once it starts but never makes an effort to make it happen.

Yet, like other posters have said, she steps up her game when I am going out of town, or when she thinks another woman is lurking.  I would be a fool not to try and exploit something that naturally gets her juices flowing.  Sure, I wish I was married to a woman with a natural drive who jumps her husband just because.  I won the wife lottery in a lot of ways, but she is not sexually motivated.

I don't fault her, this is exactly my experience with women.  Like they say, the easiest way to meet an attractive woman is to show up with another attractive woman.  [/quote]

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