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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can certainly see why you'd want to take your revenge in that way.  Personally, though, I'd rather dump the guy (if the marriage was, in fact, broken) and then do whatever the hell I wanted with whoever the hell I wanted.  Because when you're single, you can do that.[/quote]

So if the marriage is not broken then divorce should be avoided?  i don't think people should take into account whether the marriage is broken or not. The thing is he/she was cheating on you, lying and betraying you.  Just because the marriage was good and the cheater is a nice person doesn't change the fact what they have been doing. The pain, anger, etc is still there. 
I don't care if the person has been nice to me if he cheats he will get it back. [/quote]

Cheating isn't a deal breaker for a lot of people.

You control your own behavior. It doesn't make your cheating any less wrong. [/quote]

Plus it's not going to make you feel better. It may not phase the cheater.  If anything you're putting yourself at risk for a disease.

I would do a payback to the cheater and the other person anonymously. Act all nice to spouse while watching the fallout.  Been there done that.

It was enormous relief, then moved on.

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