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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree it's a bit forward; I also see why they want to know.  But it seems like there are nicer / better ways to phrase it...(All from the same relationship? Do they all have the same father?) [/quote]

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Can avoid all that by telling them how many kids she has before the first date.  It is completely disingenuous to tell someone you have four kids on a first date.  Waste of everyone’s time.[/quote]

I am not meeting the men online, so they aren't reading a profile. [b]I meet men the old fashioned way--in person. The guy from today pulled up on me in a parking lot on Tuesday and asked for my number. We went out to lunch today after several back and forth text messages.
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Should I have told him in the parking lot that I have 4 kids? I don't view my kids as a detriment or a dirty secret so having them works its way into the conversation organically and within the first conversation. Geesh[/quote]

Why on earth would you give your number to a stranger you met in a parking lot? This strikes me as dangerous and thirsty.[/quote]

If interested equals thirsty.... I guess I am thirsty. Shrugs shoulders. Blowing men off who show interest in you, when you are interested as well is silly. I caught his eye and he caught mine too. It was broad daylight and I was not in harms way.

I know online dating seems normal to the youngins, but how do you think people were meeting prior to its existence?[/quote]

I’m not a “youngin”, and I think it’s weird, I didn’t give my number to someone for whom I had no context.[/quote]

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