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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree w/ 11:21.[/quote]
You both are unbelievable.  I said that I wish she was around to embarrass me. I didn't judge anyone and my post indicated that mine would certainly embarrass me too.

Anyways, what is wrong with perspective? It's easy to lose sight and I know you both would feel the same way if you were me. If not, God help you. I hope that when you find yourself in my shoes you are not subjected to this kind of ugliness.[/quote]

No you don't know they would feel the same way as you - that's just more of your inability to see that not everyone thinks or feels the way you do.  Why do you feel the need to provide YOUR perspective?  It's not ugliness, it's trying to get you to stop projecting your issues on someone else.  I know what it's like to have a friend like you - no matter what I might complain about, you feel the need to provide some 'perspective'.  You're so annoying and not really a friend.[/quote]

So you've decided to take it there...okay....let's do this then.

I bet your friend is tired of hearing you whine about completely irrevelant and ridiculous crap and is thinking that you need to get some real problems or shut up.

Understanding and appreciating different perspectives is how we grow as people.  It brings wisdom.  It's not always comfortable to hear but if I was complaining about my 3 year talking too much and another mom shared that her child can't speak I would appreciate their perspective because it is grounding.  It teaches me to appreciate what I have and try to let the small things go.

Well, hopefully your mom will die in a car accident today.  That way you can get your own perspective and stop being embarrassed  on facebook.  How's that for perspective???  Idiot.....[/quote]

Guess what -- I lost my mom (and dad), too, but I laughed at the original post.  Some of my fondest memories of my mom were how she would embarass us.  I could imagine her totally screwing up in using Facebook. I agree with other posters that you are being selfish and passive aggressive, and you fail to consider that others would respond differently to this post. That last comment was really nasty.
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I agree.  I lost both of my parents as well but that doesn't mean that my friends can't discuss their problems or even their silly complaints with the parents with me.   It in no way means that they don't appreciate having parents.  I also laughed at the original post because I can totally see that happening with my mother.  When I studied abroad, told me that we had to stop emailing because she was afraid of what her long distance bill was going to be like!

It's sad, even tragic, that we've lost a parent, but it's ok for others to vent about their parental issues.[/quote]

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