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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] [i]Do you mispronounce and look down on black names? [/i] I never intentionally mispronounce anyone's name. I try not to look down on anyone's name either. [i]What would you think of a black man named Mark versus a black man name DeMarcus? [/i]Mark is more familiar to me so I may subconsciously assume that we have more in common. [i] Do you think Mark was raised by a college educated nuclear black family, or was he adopted?[/i] I was assume neither. [i]Did DeMarcus grow up in subsidized housing never knowing his father?[/i] I would not assume this. [i] My name is Arabic, traditionally used in the black community. After my freshman year of college I went by the nickname Nicole and the change was obvious. I was still a black woman, but so there was a privilege in going by Nicole. [/i]Studies have shown this to be true for a long time now. [i] I had my children, and gave them top 100 Euro-centralist names, believing this was better for them[/i]. Makes sense. [i] My daughter has friend, a white child from an upper middle class family, named Karsynne. My son has a boy in his class named Wolff. I know so many white kids with names that are absolutely bizarre, completely made up and I want to kick myself for not naming my daughter Iesha. I thought I could erase a bit of their blackness, and it would help them navigate.[/i] [i]Seeing my Michael next to a blue eyed, blonde haired little boy named Maverick and I just have to laugh. [/i] Congratulations? You sound judgmental and bitter. [/quote][/quote]
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