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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband's kids have serious relationship issues because of the crap their mom put them through divorcing Dad.  You will no longer be parenting your kids in less you have 50/50 and then you will only see them 50/50.  Is that really best for them?  Yes, you are partly divorcing them.  We get it, you want to be with someone else or are having an affair and want to move on.  Easier than fixing what is going on and who cares what impact it has on others.[/quote]

It is interesting when people suggest that I can just “fix” my broken marriage.  I suggested that DW get help for her depression.. she said no.  Topic of Divorce came up.. she still said no.  Would I like to find a partner and friend to spread the rest of my life with YES.  My current DW has demonstrated that she does not want to be that person.  I am concerned  that if I was not living in the house... who would do laundry, dishes and all of the task that I do..  DW would have to come out of her room more to do things..  I do not see how my marriage is fixable.  Help me understand what a “fixed” marriage looks like.[/quote]

You are not willing to fix your marriage by working on it and rebuilding your relationship with her.  Depression isn't the issue, your relationship is.  My husband has untreated depression.  Its not an issue and we are both supportive of the other's health issue.  Bottomline is you are either having an affair or planning to have one and want to blame her as a justification.  [/quote]

So very judgmental person.. SEVERAl times we have had talks and tried to make things “better”.  She always stops putting an effort in.  The last time when I wanted a divorce she tried more than before to improve and it lasted maybe 3 months.. but then it goes back into the same bs.  I am approaching the age that my father was when he died.  So a driver from my side is that I only have so much time.  I want to find a friend and partner that loves me and so me affection to share the rest of my life with. I get no hugs.  When I try to hug my DW.. she roles her eyes and does not hug back.   If you think that I have not tried to “fix” my marriage based on your description.. you are wrong.  I have been on the front lines of this bs and live iit every day.  I have tried several different strategies and tactics.. The Loneliness and affectionless sexless marriage continued.. when I brought up divorce... she was shocked because she seems fine with it.  So recalibrate your perseption of my reality.[/quote]

There is far more to this story than what you are say and there is probably a reason why she doesn't want you to touch her.  You are very very selfish just based on your posts.  You are probably having an affair and justifying leaving your wife.  Do her and your kids a favor and leave already.[/quote]

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