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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband's kids have serious relationship issues because of the crap their mom put them through divorcing Dad.  You will no longer be parenting your kids in less you have 50/50 and then you will only see them 50/50.  Is that really best for them?  Yes, you are partly divorcing them.  We get it, you want to be with someone else or are having an affair and want to move on.  Easier than fixing what is going on and who cares what impact it has on others.[/quote]

You can't "fix" a spouse who has mental health problems. They can't even fix those problems themselves; they can't just say "OK, I have decided not to be mentally ill now". Often they don't even believe they are mentally ill.

You also can't fix someone who simply lacks affection or desire for you. You cannot control it. Neither can they. If they don't feel affection or desire, they can't just decide to feel those things.

Did anyone grow up with parents who showed each other no affection? How did that affect you? [/quote]

It does not appear to have affect my oldest.  They seem to be in a loving relationship.  My youngest also seems to also be affectionate. Really only time will tell.[/quote]

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