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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does get on mean?

God it's scary to think someone like you has 2 children.   [/quote]

I have 1 child. I was also a preschool teacher for years with a background in early childhood education. I’m not upset with the 3 year old. I’m upset with my sister and her fiancé. For instance I hosted the 4th of July celebration at my house. My sister would yell at DD constantly when she wasn’t even doing anything. They’re fine disciplining future nephew but won’t even say that’s not nice to future niece. It got to where even my mom told her she’s way out of line for how she’s treating DD.[/quote]

Then effing LEAVE THEM ALONE. Stop trying to force closeness. Drop the whole idea of a joint birthday party or whatever. Just leave them alone--they've got a lot to sort out for themselves at the moment. "The 4th of July celebration," as if it is a must-do, compulsory event for your family. Just celebrate with your own, nuclear family and maybe some friends. Drop the rope on your sister and her situation for a while. FFS.

-NP[/quote]

If you had any reason comprehension whatsoever you would have read that I’m trying to drop the rope. I just wanted advice on how to do so without hurting feelings. I threw a party for my entire family. It had nothing to do with forcing a relationship with my future niece. I’m not allowed to celebrate with my parents and brothers now?[/quote]

Please do everyone a favor and stop. Accept invites, just don't plan anything for a while. Just take a breather.[/quote]

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