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My parents were asocial and thus had no idea what normal parenting looked like. I lived a hermit's life, basically, and only socialized at school. God forbid I had a semblance of a life outside of school. I was not allowed to see my friends, go anywhere, or have any kind of activity, apart from piano, a very solitary sport. Borderline abusive.

I tried to talk to them about it once. It did not go over well. [/quote]

How are you parenting nowadays?

My spouse had a similar situation but because his father had severe ADHD almost to the point of being a social liability or dangerous in public or private or parenting situations. DH is only now addressing his family of origin issues and doesn't know what to make of his parents or their relationship. [/quote]

I would love to know this, also.  DH tells me that they never had friends to their house, except for maybe birthday parties, when they were in elementary, and that was only a couple children, mostly from the neighborhood.  So sad to me, I feel like he missed out a lot.  Seeing his family, you can kind of tell that something is up with the parents.  My DH has a hard time addressing it, but he absolutely knows that his family is not normal.  My family was the opposite, friends and family were in and out daily, a very social, outgoing house.  How did you get your husband to address it? [/quote]

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