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[quote=Anonymous]I am a woman married to a guy in the military. He served in Afghanistan. He saw friends blown up in front of him by IED's. Not surprisingly, he has serious PTSD. I knew I was marrying a military guy and this type of thing happens but never fully understood until he came home. We experienced serious marital difficulties. So I don't think one can say to an abuse victim that they should have disclosed or they are an abuser. Some people do disclose, like my spouse, but still try to hold it together. Marriage is long and brings lots of pain. If you can't handle that, if you can't handle sacrificing for long periods of time for your spouse, you shouldn't get married. Not saying a spouse doesn't need to work on themselves but marriage is all about love and acceptance and sacrifice. [/quote]
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