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[quote=Anonymous]My spouse did go into marriage knowing I had an abuse background. We had no idea how this would affect me years down the road. When memories and flashbacks came flooding back? Neither of us was prepared. I'm lucky though that he stayed by me, faithfully, lovingly, always looking to help me. Things are far better now. While I do think full disclosure is best, it isn't always possible with this kind of stuff. It just isn't. Sometimes people don't remember things til years later. And men especially, don't want to admit they've been abused. The shame surrounding it is intense. Yes, it is painful for the spouse to have to go without sex or to have bad sex for a period of time. But I have to say, it doesn't really sound like many of the responders on this thread actually love their spouses. I'm not hearing any love at all. That's so sad for you to not be able to give love. [/quote]
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