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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guy here.  I’m on my second marriage.  I’ve never been in a sexless marriage But I completely understand how they happen.  I have been in situations where its not enough (I want daily/she wants weekly).

I’ve tried to keep this from happening by being someone a woman would want to have sex with.  First, and this sounds cheezy, I stay sexy.  I’m in the gym almost daily and I eat clean during the week.  I also have a current hairstyle and am a sharp dresser.  Next, I address any sexual performance issues with my doctor: ED, PE, etc, because life is too short for bad sex. Next, I learn what she likes and make sure she O’s EVERY time.  This means using a vibe during doggy for us - fine.  Last, I address and stay on top of any issues that could build resentment in my relationship.[/quote]

Some of us do that.  I hit the gym a lot and eat great.  I don’t have PE or ED and I’m in great health.  Modern haircut, clean shaven or a little stubble, form fitting clothes and muscular.

Sometimes that isn’t enough.  Resentment builds when needs aren’t met.  You can’t be the one who puts in the effort all the time
 Ironically, it’s not my looks or attitude, I get interest from other women quite a bit ( and other men, just don’t go that way).  Sometimes there just no chemistry [/quote]

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