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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
Two possibilities here:

1. Either your youth excuses your insecurity vis-a-vis the family elders (because this is what this is), and in a few decades you'll laugh about yourself.

2. Or you're truly psycho-rigid and can't let anything go, and it will just get worse with age.

I think it's 1. The elders are riling you up semi-purposefully because they want to throw their weight about with a lifestyle they disapprove, and THEY ARE GETTING SUCH A KICK OUT OF YOUR REACTIONS.

Solution: smile, and return the favor.
"My husband, you say? Now how you getting on with the night-time potty breaks, Mami?" Nice and loud at family gatherings.
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Op here and my sister pretty much always claps back at our family members. My cousin who is on dialysis continues to drink excessive amounts of alcohol and continues to do hard drugs (just like my aunt; his mother). He was making fun of my sister for looking “pale” and called her names because of her make up. She told him to “stfu crack head, at least I look pale because of my make up not because I inject myself with drugs” I could never be sad savage as my sister m, but I might have to now [/quote]

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